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Thanks for explaining, I think that is true in most cases that we do have agency as adults and it's not a simple cause and effect from childhood trauma to enlarged amygdala to fascism as there are multiple factors. But unfortunately the way society operates is to keep us in survival mode. So most people don't have the energy, time, privilege and knowledge to heal as they're working 24/7, don't have the education etc. So a lot of them perpetuate intergenerational trauma that has it's root causes in oppressive systems like capitalism, heteropatriachy, colonialism.

I've witnessed the lasting damage of childhood trauma and intergenerational trauma into adulthood first hand in myself and family. My parents survived the Bangladeshi genocide by US backed Western Pakistan in 1971 and before that the brutality, looting and violence of British colonisation of India creating multiple Bengal famines, partition etc. So that trauma did cause narcissism and violence in my father and my uncles, to this day he hasn't changed much.

I do think the science shows us that with some conditions mainly caused by childhood trauma it's near impossible to change like narcissism and sociopathy. The personal is political and ultimately oppressive systems like patriarchy, capitalism, imperialism are perpetuated against children in the family unit as a microcosm of the wider society. We need to heal ourselves to transform the world I believe. Staci Haines and Prentis Hemphill have done great work about need for healing as individual and collective to transform our society to a more fair and equal one.

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I agree with a lot of what you say, as humans are social species that have evolved to be in groups and therefore the people in charge of systems that govern our lives like neoliberal capitalism must play a huge part in who becomes a fascist in a position of power.

I did have a critique of this part "We should believe that humans are better than their base psychological drives, that what happened to us in our past doesn’t define us. It is defeatist, in my opinion, to say that because one went through abuse in childhood, they have a higher propensity to become a certain way."

Neuroscience, neurobiology tell us that what happens in our childhood can affect us for the rest of our lives and literally causes physical brain structure changes. Our early environment plays a bigger role than our genetics in shaping who we are, but both play a part. It's obvious when you look at it - our early years are when our brains are developing the fastest, the brain doubles in size in the first year and by age 3 it is 80% of our adult size. If you look up the Adverse Childhood Experience Study and anything by Dr Bruce Perry, Dr Bessel Van Der Kolk, Dr Ramani, Daniel Siegel amongst many, many others. The evidence is there. We can change as adults, but it is very hard as our survival responses to trauma (fight/flight/freeze/fawn) are instinctive responses that are unconscious, we share this with reptiles and all mammals, hence it's called the 'reptilian brain.' It is hard to change from the top down alone i.e. cognitively and needs body-based healing such as retraining your nervious system to be regulated through meditation, exercise, co-regulation in therapy, somatic therapy etc. Narcissism is a personality trait caued by early childhood trauma and it is very hard for narcississts to change.

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